PEOPLE'S PLEASER.
Live your life to please your own very self and not to please other people. The harsh reality is that, whenever we are striving to please everybody, we end up pleasing nobody at all which then make us to stand alone eventually.
Moreover, have we ever thought of those whom we are pleasing to please their own very self or themselves —at an individual level? Let alone having someone or some other persons willy to please us that very way that we've pleased them?
Life is too short to be living on other people's opinions and ideas just to fit into what they want of|from us; lead your own very life the way you want it to be led. No matter what you do, people would always have something to judge you with, either for or against you. So, just make sure you are doing the right thing with your living of life cos' we will always stand and be alone at the end.
Even the Holy Book avouched to the fact in Deuteronomy 24:16 that;
"Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor will children be put to death for their fathers; each is to die for his own sin".
Live your life the way you so want it; by the bye, would you prefer to live a life filled with pangs of conscience or other than? —Always have a think over before taking steps of action(s) as you live.
Life is per head! and,
Once is life…
STOP LIVING A LIFE OF "WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY…"
STOP LIVING A LIFE OF "HOW WILL PEOPLE SEE ME…"
START LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT IT FOR YOURSELF…
STOP BEING PEOPLE'S PLEASER!
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TheGentwithRichDreams
OLAWUYI Blessing Ishola.
No doubt that some while iam caught up with trying to please others which I will ended up pleasing no one. After which I successfully digest this post i concur to your admonition, To - STOP LIVING A LIFE OF "WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY…"
ReplyDeleteSTOP LIVING A LIFE OF "HOW WILL PEOPLE SEE ME…"
And, START LIVING MY OWN LIFE THE WAY I WANT IT FOR MYSELF...
Henceforth, iQUIT BEING PEOPLE'S PLEASER!
#iPray your realm of wisdom never to be out-of-date. Amen!
Roger that.🎯
DeleteAmen..
iThank you, Minister
I have been living my with what people will say cause of the kind of family I came from but with this write up I think am happy now to just be my self .
ReplyDeleteYour freedom lies in your hands, remember you came into the world just alone for yourself, those you are scared of are actually living the life they've choosen to live.
DeleteDon't do them.
Do you, okai?
Choose the life you want and live it freely like the birds in the sky, not being afraid of the claws of others.
#Noone can set you free unless you do it yourself
#You are your freedom
#You are YOU!
Live a positive LIFE for yourself and get more happiness from|on it.
Safe!
I'm my self...
ReplyDeleteI will do what is right, though it doesn't please other..
Thanks, and job well done to writer...
Why must they be pleased before your get a comforting breath of life?
DeleteContinue to stick to your standards, keep creating and re-creating your joy day after day.
Do what is RIGHT regardless what people would say or from the perspective they would see it.
iAppreciate you, Olayemi O. Joshua.🙋🏾♂️
This is a wonderful write-up, this actually came at the right time for me, thank you #iQuitpeoplepleasing
ReplyDeleteImpeccable graces on the write up itself. So glad it came through like a fairy to you.
DeleteYou will never regret the step, they've had enough of you serving them.
You appreciated, Falcon.🎩
But sometimes it's easier said than done for those of us who lived our life for years following that pattern of pleasing other people
ReplyDeleteTure that! True that!
DeleteOnce there is a determination in ending such lifestyle, surely shall it be done just that it won't happen over the night, it would be a gradual process and someone really have to have some checks in gauging how far one is working on that very aspect.
Habits are not easily changed, neither are addictions easy things to overcome.
If truly you want to put an end to the mundane routine of pleasing people, you have to make|take bold steps in actualizing it out, never will it be easy like you've said but when you obsessedly driven on it, then you will be a conqueror.
iHope you win the fight of the struggle.
Thanks brother...... Message gotten
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DeleteNice one fam
ReplyDeleteTouché
DeleteThis is actually true of the geñeral society but as soon as we all start having the right reality about life, who we are, what we are, what we're supposed to be and how we should relate with the whole consciousness then and then we'd start living.
ReplyDeleteWelcoming is that, EyitayoE. Oyeleke.
DeleteThe stance of self-consciousness is so primal to our individual lives, iHope with time and better understanding, we would all start living right.
Absolute master piece. Bless up bro, your writing is soul satisfying. I urge people with this trait to read "No More Mr Nice Guy".
ReplyDeleteiThank you, Sir.
DeleteAgbaakin Jr.